sftp-server: support home-directory request

sftp-server: support home-directory request

Add support to the sftp-server for the home-directory extension defined
in draft-ietf-secsh-filexfer-extensions-00. This overlaps a bit with the
existing expand-path@openssh.com, but uses a more official protocol name,
and so is a bit more likely to be implemented by non-OpenSSH clients.

From Mike Frysinger, ok dtucker@