Error out early on bad anchor usage

Error out early on bad anchor usage

`pfctl -a foo' would do nothing with the non-existent anchor and exit 0.
This implements behaviour as documented in pfctl(8):

	-a anchor
	    Apply flags -f, -F, and -s only to the rules in the specified
	    anchor.

While here, hoist a duplicate "_" check by using the more mnemonic `mode'.

OK henning sashan